My daughter, a student at San Fransisco State U sent me an email that I had never seen before. I guess the author of the joke was waiting for the outcome of the election I don't know. But the joke went a little something like "At five am all white people are to report to the cotton fields-Pres Obama." Giving the power of the moment in history I was taken aback. I mean I've heard the Obama jokes before, even the old ones recirculated like painting the white house black but i thought when I woke up this morning after such an historical event things would be different. I fired a response to her and I said bluntly, You should know better, not only is the joke cruel, we don't need anything as a people to change positive public discourse about our president. I mean isn't it like 43 to 1? How is it that now we can gloat about this victory. Can't we just put this aside and be bigger that all of that? Then I asked myself now that we've come so far why do I still feel that we as a people have to look in the rear view mirror? I mean she didn't mean any harm, she's in college with the crowd having fun and she voted for Obama so what was my problem. I'm just asking for your help out there. I need someone to set me straight.
A few hours later the same joke was sent to me from one of my co-workers. He did not vote for Obama, a stanch McCain supporter so I was a little shocked that he sent it to me. Maybe he thought I would keep it going and that I needed Obama gloating material. This time I replied with the words from President-elect Obama's speech when he said "Too those Americans whose support I have yet to earn, I may not have won your vote tonight but I hear your voices, I need your help and I will be your president too." He later sent me a reply "hahahahaha."
Hahahahaha? I fired back with what I thought was a true winner and all that returned was hahahahaha. Maybe the joke is on me. Maybe I am too sensitive. Or maybe I am just tired of the same old stuff and yearn for something a little different. Maybe I am too Obama defensive. Am i alone with these feelings. Am I getting all butthurt for nothing. Someone just tell me they would feel the same way but would react differently. Whatever you do lets keep it positive and please...NO MORE JOKES.



